Archive for August, 2014

Nobody likes hearing about “dirty old men.”

It’s so much better to hear about godly old men.

That’s why it is so good when older men keep their hearts and minds — and eyes — focused on what is honorable, not shameful.

It’s bettter for everyone in their lives.

Including themselves.

Of course, this is true for men of all ages. Women, too.

The challenge for believers to remain chaste in their actions and thoughts is not an outgrowth of Internet porn’s explosive growth.

This challenge actually goes back to the time of Noah, it seems, when people were constantly thinking of ways to live for the flesh (Genesis 6:5) to the point that God was sorry that He had made mankind (Genesis 6:6).

Even 3,800 years ago, resisting sexual lust was a real challenge for the faithful, according to Job 31.

But it could be done.

And, thankfully, the godly man named Job did so.

“I made a covenant with my eyes 
not to look with lust at a young woman. For what has God above chosen for us?
 What is our inheritance from the Almighty on high?” (Job 31:1-2)

Job was in the midst of great pain and heartache and being married to a faithless wife. Yet he had done the spiritual math and had calculated that an eternity of peace and joy while gazing upon the Lord was a better deal than a collection of “eye candy” moments that prompted immoral fantasies outside of marriage.

This principle applies to all of us, not just the men.

Let’s make a covenant with our eyes to avoid those things that dishonor God and poison our loyalty to living a sanctified life.

Colossians 3:17 is a great compass for us.

“Whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all for the glory of God.”


As always, I love you

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Perhaps the greatest way to communicate faith to an unsaved person is to do all we can to comfort that person when things go sour in his or her life.

For it is at such times that the non-Christian can see the value of heart-comforting faith that has sustained us and that can do the same for them.

Even the non-believer understands that divorce hurts, that losing a family member to accidental death hurts, that losing a long-held job hurts.

When the non-believer sees that our hearts might be hurting yet we are also finding healing through the comfort of our faith — and we continue trying to provide blessings to others — it gets them thinking.

We’ve all faced some really tough times in life.

If we’ve held tightly to God’s hand during such times in ways that others noticed, we can testify authentically about the strength and direction we’ve found.

“He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.” (2 Corinthians 1:4)

That testimony of a comforted heart can provide a huge boost to our evangelistic influence.

Let’s sincerely want to help others to stop hurting emotionally.

Let’s comfort them.

Let’s show them how faith in God helps us to stop hurting emotionally.

Let’s show them how God comforts us.

As always, I love you

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The Christian who feels he or she has lost everything should try to remember that he or she is rich beyond comprehension.

For no amount of earthly calamity can bankrupt the certainty of God’s promise to the one who remains faithful to Him in the midst of terrible circumstances.

If Christ remains on the throne of our hearts, guiding our humble words and actions, a wealth beyond comprehension awaits us in heaven.

It’s guaranteed.

And no thief, no disease, no natural disaster and no financial markets downturn can destroy that promise.

We simply have to make sure that we never deny the authority of God and His Word over our lives.

I’m reading through the book of Job now as part of my devotional time and I was moved today by a statement he made regarding his faith:

“At least I can take comfort in this:
 Despite the pain,
I have not denied the words of the Holy One.” (Job 6:10)

When really tough times come our way, when we’ve lost SO much of what is so important to us, let’s do our best to remember that no force in this world can take from us the fantastic future awaiting us in heaven.

As long as we don’t deny the Word of God in how we live — or in how we suffer — we have the comfort of knowing eternal comfort awaits us.

As always, I love you

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I need to be more like Job.

I need to pray more for our kids.

Job prayed for his children’s relationship with God and when he was concerned that they might have sinned, he would offer sacrifices to the Lord on behalf of each.

Praying as he did so, of course.

You can read about in the first part of chapter 1 in the book of Job.

Perhaps you’ll be compelled by Job’s example as was I.

I need to pray specifically for each of our children and their spouses. I need to pray for our grandchildren.

And I need to do this every day.

The adult kids are not perfect just as I’m not perfect.

They sin just as I sin.

That’s why I need to pray for them to hear the convicting voice of the Holy Spirit so that they’ll fall before the Lord in the repentant desire for forgiveness, something that I need to do often as well.

Job 1:5 is so compelling regarding intercessory prayer and sacrifice — “This was Job’s regular practice.”

Let’s make our regular practice, as well, whether on behalf of biological children, in-law children, adopted children, godparent children, nieces, nephews….

You get the idea.

As always, I love you

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Every Gospel-minded believer looks for opportunities to build bridges of influence with non-Christians.

Bridges are essential if seeds of the Good News are to be carried over and planted into the lives of those apart from Christ.

The Apostle Paul excelled at exhibiting his passion for Christ in ways that connected him with lost people.

“I try to find common ground with everyone, doing everything I can to save some.” I Corinthians 9:22

It doesn’t take very long in reading of Paul’s ministry life to see how fervent he was for evangelism. In jail or in the marketplace or in a synagogue, Paul’s fervor for an infectious faith was the same.

One thing you don’t see in his life, though, is spiritual compromise in order to build bridges with an unsaved person.

Paul didn’t need to go to “happy hour” or other world-centric activities in order to build a connection with hurting hearts. He looked for other opportunities within in their lives.

He understood that embracing spiritual compromise as an evangelistic approach is like asking a dieting person if he or she would meet you at the ice cream shop to talk about weight-loss strategies.

Let’s be careful that the common ground that we’re called to seek with others is common ground that Jesus would stand on.

Let’s pray more fervently that the Holy Spirit lead us in our connection efforts with those needing Christ. Such efforts clearly don’t have to be “churchy,” but they do have to be Christ-friendly, whether in the stands of a kids’ baseball game or at the wine-available wedding reception or at the workplace Christmas party.

Let’s remember Paul’s warning in I Corinthians 10:12 against thinking that we can handle any temptation circumstances within which we place ourselves —

“If you think you are standing strong, be careful not to fall.”

Let’s stand where we know Jesus will stand with us. It’s better for us, better for those we’re trying to convert and certainly better for the Kingdom.

As always, I love you

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